Three Minute Leadership: Thoughts on Dismounting an Elephant

To: The Great Leaders Who Have a Passion for Continuous Learning

Robert Fulghum in his book, Maybe (Maybe Not), tells a simple story about his visit to a forest reserve in Chiang Mai, Thailand, and shares learning for great leaders to help them through times of challenge – when situations are uncertain and emotions run high and strong decisions are to be taken.

He writes that to tour the reserve he needed to ride on the back of an elephant, which were still used for logging operations. The wooden ladder placed on the side of the elephant was shaky as he ascended. The transfer to an equally shaky wooden platform was equally challenging. He said: “The anxiety of getting on was matched by the anxiety of getting off.” The height off the ground and the elephant’s lurching movements intensified his concern. Dismounting would be a challenge. As he began his descent he noticed a small sign at the top of the ladder:

NOTICE: INSTRUCTIONS FOR DISMOUNTING AN ELEPHANT

FIRST, COMPOSE YOUR MIND.

MUCH EASIER TO GET DOWN THAN UP.

Of his experience he wrote: “In the ensuing years, much of that trip around the world has faded from conscious memory. But indelibly written in the operating instructions for my life is that admonition from the top run of that ladder in Thailand. The instructions continued, concerning holding on with both hands and not poking the elephant. But it was the first line that spoke to me. Even now, when I am about to make a move of consequence, small or large, a warning light flashed form the control panel in my head: ‘This is an elephant dismount.’” And sometimes, sometimes, I actually manage to compose my mind.”

James H. Boren, author, wrote: “When in doubt, mumble; when in trouble, delegate; when in charge, ponder.” From Fulghum’s story, may we add to this: “ … when deciding, compose.” May your thoughts, words and actions take their root in considered decisions, based on principles and values. In these important, reflective moments, may you always remember: “This is an elephant dismount.”

Have a beautiful day and a magnificent week!!!

Mike

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